I just came back from ISTA and my head is exploding. 🤯🤯🤯 I have so much to update you on!!!!

So, without further ado……. Let’s tuck in 🥁This piece is about how we sabotage our relationships. YAY.

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It should come as no surprise when I say I LOVE freedom & adventure.

I mean, just LOOK at my life choices. 👀

🔥 Lawyer 👉🏼 sex coach.

🔥 London-based 👉🏼 totally nomadic

🔥 Monogamous 👉🏼 Poly Converted🔥

....and perpetual experience chaser.

That’s what freedom is, right? To always have choice?  ⛔🙈🙅🏻

But the catch is …. I don't truly commit to the options I do pick because I haven’t fully let go of the choices I didn’t pick!

Part of me still looks back, and doubts the choice I made. Did I pick the right one? Did I optimise?

And even more bizarrely, when I DO pick something - I find a way to turn it into a SHOULD.

🌱 “I want to be a sex coach" becomes 👉🏼 “I HAVE TO do this to make a living”.

🌱 “I want this relationship” becomes 👉🏼 “I HAVE TO show up like this to be loved”.